Do I Hate My Ex-Husband Enough To Change Our Kids’ Last Names?

Trisha wants to change her last name back from her ex-husband's to her maiden name, But she doesn't want to have a different last name from her own children. Should she change their last names as well?

Ayla Brown All right. So what's going on with the whole last name thing that sounds like a Carrie Underwood song in the making? And I think our listeners will have a lot to say about it.

Tricia I am divorced and I really can't stand my ex husband. He cheated on me with his secretary of all people I knew. Oh, you know how many times we hear of things like this happening? How It's just like typical. So we have two kids together, but ever since we got divorced, he really hasn't been present in our children's lives. Like, you know, maybe for their birthday, he'll just send a card to them in the mail and there won't even be any money in it. It'll just be a card. That's it? Yeah.

Ayla Brown Oh, yeah. How old are your kids? If you don't mind me asking, are they, like, 18? And they don't need presents? Or are they like, six?

Tricia No. One is a one is five.

Ayla Brown Okay, Well, all right. They're probably expecting some gifts in the mail or at least some presents from daddy. You know, presents and presents, if you know what I mean. Okay, so keep going. You hate your ex. Got it?

Tricia Yeah. Because of all of this, I really want to change my last name back to my maiden name, and I want to change my children's name to that as well. I just. I really want my boys to have a last name that they can be proud of. Hmm. And do you think I'm being too harsh with that by wanting or do you think I'm being reasonable?

Ayla Brown I mean, I love this because I don't I don't need to say anything about it because our listeners do that for us. So I will throw it out to the phones. Eight, 888191225 now. Tricia is a divorced, her ex husband is a jerk, cheated on her with a secretary and doesn't send the kids presents for his birthday or he's not present at all in their life. So she wants to know is it fair to want to change not only her last name, but in the process change the last name of her two boys so they all share your maiden name, If you don't mind. What is your maiden last name?

Tricia It's Goldman. Okay.

Ayla Brown So it would it would instead of whatever. SMITH It would be. GOLDMAN So I'm curious, is that fair? Is that fair for kids who have are six or five and eight like changing their last name? Is it confusing for the kids? Do you think that it's fine for them? They'll be totally emotionally okay with changing something that they were born with? Is it fair to do to the ex-husband? Is it fair for Tricia to want to do this?

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