Chad called in because he’s on all the apps and none of the ladies seem interested. After some questions, Ayla found that his profile picture is a gym selfie, among other issues. Can we help Chad find love? Would you swipe right on a gym selfie?
Ayla Brown: And good morning, Chad. I’m so glad that you finally called in. I want to help you out with your dating profile.
Chad: Hi. Hey. That’s right. Yeah, I’m you know, I’m on all the dating apps, but I’m just not getting any matches, and now I’m starting to think I’m doing something wrong.
Ayla Brown: There’s no way not a single person has swiped Danielle.
Chad: Yeah, I’ve got zero matches. I don’t know what I’m doing.
Ayla Brown: Let me ask you a couple of questions, and then we’ll throw it out to the phones and maybe people have some ideas on why you’re not getting a single match, which breaks my heart because you sound like a nice guy. Let’s talk profile picture. Chad, what is your profile pic?
Chad: Well, I think it’s a great pic. It’s me at the gym in front of a mirror kind of selfie style. But, you know, I’m looking really hot. You know, all my muscles are showing.
Ayla Brown: So gym selfie. Gotcha. Are you flexing or subtle flex?
Chad: Well, you know, flexing. I want to show the ladies what I got, you know?
Ayla Brown: Cool. What else in the profile does it have? Your age and your occupation? What do you do for a living?
Chad: Well, I’m currently in between jobs, but I’ve had a lot of jobs in the past.
Ayla Brown: Cool.
Chad: It’s got my age on there. I’m not too old yet. I don’t think I’m still in the dating thing, mid thirties.
Ayla Brown: A lot of people, they swipe based on first impressions and appearance. Talk to me about some of the photos. If I were to swipe on you. I’m happily married, by the way, as you know. But, if I were to swipe on you, what would be the three first pictures that I would see of yours?
Chad: I’ve got a bunch of pictures of me and my bro’s hanging out and gym photos, me working out, and a couple of vacation pics.
Ayla Brown: Vacation. Okay, Where was the vacation?
Chad: I’m a beach guy, so I’m always trying to get a good shot of me on the beach.
Ayla Brown: All right? Between you and I, I’m not going to lie. I see and predict a few red flags here just based on what you’re telling me right now. I don’t know, though, if other people think that there are some red flags when it comes to your dating profile and we want to help you out. Does anyone have any advice for Chad who has a dating profile? He’s out there. He described some of the photos that he’s putting up of him at the gym, him flexing in the mirror, him with a bunch of his bro’s at the beach. Do we have any feedback for him? How can we help someone swipe at least and match with him one time so we can go out on a date?
