Three N.E States Rank High In Dating Profile Honesty.
For those of us in the dating world (thankfully, I’m out of it) the biggest challenge is with meeting people that are single too. For most that means using one of the various online dating apps where perspective dates post their profiles.
Unfortunately, a big portion of people on the dating apps are let’s just say less than honest about themselves and their entire existence. People will embellish things about themselves that will not pass the test of time when they are confronted with a real live person that they have connected with.
The website DatingAdvice.com recently had single Americans rate their online dating experiences of how honest people are, on a scale of 1-to-10 . . . with one being the least honest, and 10 the most.
And this isn’t embellishing stories . . . it’s the basic stuff like ages, jobs, hobbies, education, appearances in real life, and even “relationship status.”
Overall, people rated the HONESTY they’ve encountered on dating profiles as a “5.1 out of 10.” Which . . . is not great. But there was a lot of variance by state.
Here are the 3 N.E. states that scored the highest in dating honesty
South Dakotans stood out as the most honest, scoring a 7.5 out of 10. Other honest states include: Alaska (7.3) . . . Delaware (7.0) . . . Maine (6.8) . . . New Hampshire (6.3) . . . and Vermont (6.2). In case you were wondering how Massachusetts fared, the score was a below average honesty score of 4.9. That leaves a lot to be desired when it comes to dating site honesty.
New Yorkers were the LEAST honest, by far, scoring only 3.4 out of 10. Other dishonest states include: Pennsylvania (4.0) . . . Washington state (4.0) . . . New Jersey (4.1) . . . Wisconsin (4.2) . . . Iowa (4.2) . . . and West Virginia (4.3).
And, for what it’s worth, 53% of single people say they’ve found that city daters are LESS honest than smaller town residents.
What is about online profiles that make people lie or let’s “stretch the truth” when it comes to themselves? Don’t they think that they will have some explaining to do when you meet up. If you lie about your appearance, height or weight it won’t be long before the truth comes out.
It’s one thing to lie about your looks etc, but if you lie about your age, you are telling a lot about yourself. There’s no way you can keep up this lie for long and the best way to see if someone is lying about their age, ask them what year they graduated from high school. If they hesitate with the answer, that should present a red flag for you. Everyone knows what year they graduated and it should come out rapidly.
Hey, good luck out there and keep it real. Really.
(You can see the chart for each state’s honestly rating at DatingAdvice.com.)
6 Inexpensive Date Ideas: Ignite Romance Without Breaking The Bank
Coffee Date
This date is a personal favorite because it’s not overly complicated. Coffee dates are casual and very low pressure. It allows you and your date to talk in a relax environment. Bonus points, if you make a local coffee shop. Local coffee shops often have a more intimate setting.
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Walk A Scenic Trail
By no means are we talking about an intense hike up and down mountains and hills. But a simple nature trail will do the trick. This kind of date gives you both a chance to enjoy nature and create a memorable experience. You can even plan for a sunrise or sunset walk for added romance. Be sure to wear comfortable shoes.
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Sip Date At A Brewery Or Wine Tour
There are several local breweries and wineries that offer tours throughout their establishment. These establishments usually have fun tours that break down the process of how their product is made. Sharing the experience with your partner is even better because you’ll get to talk about what you both think of the drinks. Some breweries and tours include tastings and often start at just $15 per person. Sometimes these places offer games and live music.
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Go On A Picnic
Picnic dates are a classic. You can get as elaborate as you want to and work it into any budget. You can have a picnic almost anywhere as long as there’s a place to drop a picnic blanket or a table for eating. Other than having food on hand, it wouldn’t hurt to have a card game handy or a Bluetooth speaker at hand to prevent awkward moments. Just a heads up, this date involves careful planning. If it’s peak sunshine and mosquito season, be sure to pack your sunscreen and bug spray.
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Volunteer Date
Volunteer dates can work really well for established couples. They can create new opportunities to meet people and make couple of friends. Obviously, a volunteer date may not be a good idea if you’re separated the entire time. So, this one may require a bit of research. Unless you’re looking to add a bit of adventure or something different to your date.
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Antiquing And Thrifting
Garage sales, estate sales, antiquing, thrifting, whichever you choose can make for a fun budget-friendly date. It’s like a scavenger hunt where you don’t know what the items are you’re supposed to find. But whatever you two may find you can always laugh and bond about it. There’s even the possibility of a fashion show if you find yourself in a place with a load of vintage clothes. The same concept can also be applied to bookstores and music stores.
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