My wife just had a baby and needs time for her body to recover so she told me I could have a “hall pass” to sleep with someone else until she feels better. But part of me feels like this is a trap. Should I take advantage of this? Is a “hall pass” really a “hall pass” or is it a trick?
Ayla Brown: And good morning, Jason. Can I just say, based on your email that you sent me, this might be the craziest scenario I’ve ever heard of, and I need you to explain what is going on with this new baby, the wife, the sex, like all of it, please.
Jason: Oh, man, it is a weird situation. So, yeah, I just had a baby. My wife and I were very, very happy a couple of weeks ago. It’s still very new. But when, those who haven’t had a baby yet, when you have the baby, there’s a healing process around six weeks. You can’t do anything.
Ayla Brown: You can’t have intercourse. Yes. Like a woman. I think I’ll because I’m a mom, I’m a mother. I remember like it was yesterday. And my husband and I were like, well, you can’t. Don’t even look at me for six weeks, you know?
Jason: Right, Right. Yeah.
Ayla Brown: And mom has got to heal.
Jason: For me, it was fine. Obviously, I’m very happy with everything that’s going on. But my wife just told me she’s the happiest she’s ever been, and this is the greatest. She said I know you’re a man and you have needs. So for this one time, limited time offer, one time only, I’ll give you a hall pass. You can use a hall pass and you can sleep with somebody else if you want to. And it blew my mind.
Ayla Brown: Can I ask you a question, Jason? When she says Hall pass for this one time only, does she mean that you can have sex one time or multiple times during the six week time?
Jason: Not sure. I didn’t get much further into it. I think it’s one time. I don’t know. I also don’t know if it’s a trap. Honestly, I’m a little scared. Yeah. I didn’t know what to do.
Ayla Brown: So you’ve not said like, Yeah, that sounds like a great idea because you’re a smart man, Jason. You would never say that, pretty smart.
Jason: I’d never jump to that.
Ayla Brown: Let me just go ask you a question. So your wife is saying I’m the happiest I’ve ever been. You’ve given me a child. I’m so grateful for that. But I know that you and I can’t have sex for six weeks, so I’m giving you the opportunity. If you want Jason to have sex with someone else during that time frame. And that’s why you’re calling me. Because you’re like, Is she the coolest wife in the world? Or is it a trap? Because if it’s a trap, years down the road and the second she finds out, she will be like, I can’t believe you actually did it. Whoa.
Jason: Yeah. Exactly.
Ayla Brown: What is your gut saying? Do you think you’re going to go through with it or do you not want to? Do you think, Hey, if she said it, let’s try it. Where’s your mind at?
Jason: You know, I mean, I am a man and I obviously have needs or whatever. But I’m also in a pretty happy point in my life right now. And I don’t know if it’s even worth it. I might really regret it.
Ayla Brown: You might immediately. Or as you said in your emails, you don’t know if she’s the coolest wife on the planet and she actually means this